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Hello hsmc, You could buy an adapter from F-type to male connector or a cable with an F-type on one end and a male connector on the other end at your local electronic hardware. So that you do not have to cut your old connector. I believe this are locally available. You could also contact your decder supplier if they have an available adapter just tell them about the existing connector on your TV`s. Thanks for dropping by and have a good day.