To help us revive that lost art to its former glory, I asked several queer friends to tell me everything they love and don’t love about double clicking someone else’s mouse.
1. Try to touch her the way you touch yourself.
2. But what you like might be the complete opposite of what she likes.
3. If all else fails, have her show you what she likes.
4. Switch up how you touch her.
5. Don’t actually “bang” her with your fingers.
6. No, there’s not just one fingering position.
7. You have two hands. Use them both.
8. Cut. Your. Freaking. Nails.
9. Wash your hands, please!
10. Don’t ignore the clit, as most vaginas need clit stimulation to orgasm.
11. Start slow.
12. Try the “come hither” gesture.
13. Don’t forget the lube!